Remember, sometimes it is way more of a struggle for the person you are offering/giving help to to ask for and even open to receive help (even if they REALLY REALLY need it) than it is for you to notice, offer and give the help that you are giving to that person (even if it is not that easy for you either.)
Help needs to be offered and given from the place of giving what is needed and making sure there is deep clarity between the two as to what is being exchanged in the interaction is actually based in what is being received and what is being given in offering of assistance.
If you keep the focus on the intention of doing what is needed, with deep clarity, the efficiency of the assistance in implementation mode will be that much smoother and you, the giver, will always have deeper rewards from what you offered,gave and how it was received if your focus is to listen, be utterly clear that what you are offering is what is needed and that you are fully engaged and present to the shifts and changes in the process as the action sequence of manifestation opens into reality. Awareness, steady attention is the core of the exchange.
Yes, when you are the Giver, it is you who is holding the role of steady wisdom and patient knowledge. Thus, when you step into this role, it is your deepest calling to hold the space of the outcome you see for the Receiver with the deepest and most ardent faith to the highest outcome possible, no matter what illusions you dance with in the emergence of the outcome sought.
This is the basis of the teachings of love in action through the law of attraction, though I feel it is a better label to call it the Law of Inner Attention. I will leave you with that nomer, a contemplation within it’s own. I feel rather like the Sphinx speaking today, can you feel?